Sex a Little Bland? Play a Game!

Is your married sex life feeling bland, boring, and dull around the edges? If so, you are not alone - and you’re also not out of luck! There are many ways that you and your spouse can turn a bland sex life around. One of the most exciting ways to introduce some excitement and vibrancy is through games; games will have you and your spouse smiling, laughing and enjoying each other’s company in ways that you may have never anticipated. Let’s take a closer look at 3 sex game options you should consider for spicing up your married life.

A quick note before we get into these options: make sure that you discuss your boundaries and expectations before searching for and playing sex games. This includes discussing activities you definitely aren’t interested in, pitching ideas for what might be on the table (so to speak) and generally establishing boundaries for the games and activities you want to explore. Doing this before you search will make it easier to avoid games that can cause miscommunications in the future.

Explore an adult shop for traditional board games

Are you up for a traditional board game with a sexy twist? Head to a local sex shop - or if you’re feeling shy, Amazon or another online retailer - to look for board games with an adult twist. There are a lot of different adult board games on there, but most of them fall under the premise of including different activities that you and your spouse will do depending on what spaces you land on, what cards you pick up, or other board game elements. You may also be able to find adult card games that operate under similar premises; adult card games are a great option if you’re on a budget, since they will typically cost less money than a full-fledged board game.

Utilize ordinary playing cards for card games with a sexy twist

If you don’t feel like buying something completely new or you just don’t have the money, then why not get out a pack of ordinary playing cards and introduce a sexy twist to spice things up? Games like poker, blackjack, hearts, and even rummy can be made into an adult game as long as you introduce some sexy rules. Strip versions of these games are the most common, but you can always come up with your own rules depending on you and your spouse’s preferences.  Most games can be altered to something more sensual with a little bit of creativity.  See what you already have around the house and get busy (creating some new rules...)

Dress-up, Role-play and Fantasies

Most people have sexual fantasies that they play out in their imagination.  They're called fantasies because they shouldn't or don't play out in real life.  Many fantasies if carried out in the real world would violate the fidelity in your marriage.  But that doesn't mean you have to bottle them up entirely - let them out to play a little!  Let your spouse share in your fantasies.  Dressing up can be sexy and fun.  Role playing can help bring your hidden desires to life without distracting you from what matters most - your spouse.  Keep this advice in mind as you add in a little fantasy - if it's not bringing you closer, it's best left alone.

Look for sexy game apps on your favorite app store

Another great place to find sensual games to play together is on your phone or other devices.  Check out either the Apple App Store or Google Play for some sexy adult games and apps. There are countless adult game apps to choose from, so take a look around at the highest rated ones to get a feel for what might truly liven up your bedroom. Just make sure that your phones are nice and charged before you start playing - you don’t want to find yourself scrambling for a charger in the middle of a sexy session, after all!