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Never Give Up the Chase

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When you first fell in love with your spouse, you no doubt felt that thrill of the "chase" that came with falling in love, becoming a couple, and finally committing to one another. Yet that chase tends to fade away with most married couples, and this lack of the chase can lead spouses to feel bored, unfulfilled and can cause marital problems. If you want your love and marriage to remain vibrant and alive, you can’t give up the chase! The following are the ways that you can keep up the chase, along with a look at what causes couples to give up on that chase in the first place.

Love and the Thrill of the Chase

When you first fall in love with someone, your relationship is not guaranteed - nor do you truly know that person yet. Hence, the “chase” where you have to both pursue a relationship with someone new and learn everything you can about them. Their likes, their dislikes, their hopes, their dreams - everything that brings you closer together.  Until you've become a couple, and even until you get married, during the chase you're doing all that you can to be your best self and treat the other person special.  This is why we call it the chase, or the hunt, or courtship or dating.  In this phase, you're trying to catch the other person and convince them to be with and stay with you.

Why Couples Give Up the Chase

Once you are in a committed relationship, particularly once you ...

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